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Success is a bless; it makes a person more courteous, down to earth happy and cheerful. A successful person speaks with authority, walk with confidence and command with influence. A successful person always meets and greets people with a big smile on his face. A successful person always encourages people to do the same he is doing, he always inspires people to achieve their dreams and guide them for living an impressive life.

But what unsuccessful man does. He always comes up with some excuses. He always has some valid reason to define why he failed to produce results. Success has different meaning for different people, but every one knows in someway or the other that he/she falls in which brackets, I mean he is a successful person or a failure.

I try to dig out some of the reasons which a person who is unsuccessful throws out when ask him about his story.

Excuse No. 1 : Ah I do have that much of luck

In this part of the world people love to blame all on the luck, they always claim that if they had a little bit of luck on their side they could create wonders. Is it so? Now tell me how much luck plays a part in someone’s success? I guess it is worth answering question.

Excuse No. 2 : oh my family did not support me at all

I believe that for getting success, you need someone’s support and yes if you can find that support within your family then its great. But do you also feel that it can be a reason of someone’s failure when his family stood against his decisions?

Excuse No. 3 : I am married and have obligation on my shoulder

Some of the people whom I interacted on this subject were of the opinion that a person can achieve success until he is free from all strings. The day he gets married it’s very hard for him to get his dreams come true to reality. Now again I consider this as an excuse for hiding one’s weaknesses, there are examples when a person get his due success after marriage or after becoming father for that matter.

Excuse No. 4 : Financial constraints

Money is very important for making things happen, but it’s not the only thing which can take you there. I believe many dreams ruined without lack of financial support. What role money plays in getting success is again a debatable question.

Excuse No. 5 : I don’t have time; I am stuck up in my job

Lots of people live with this excuse for years. Having no time to devote yourself in doing the thing you love most and which you always wish to do is a big limitation. To achieve that success for which you are craving from years you need to put some extra efforts. There are examples when people start working after hours, see some success in their hard work and then left the job to give over full time to their dream career.

Conclusion

Like a successful man always has many stories to prove his worth an unsuccessful man also has many stories to defend his failure. I consider all the above as excuses because I know; if you are hungry for success nothing can come in your way. One day or the other you will be right there (with your family :-)  )

All the Best
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